Erotic festivals and parties

Erotic parties are becoming increasingly popular in the Netherlands and abroad. The taboo seems to be fading and large erotic fairs, such as the Kama Sutra fair, have actually become mainstream. On this page we would like to keep you informed of all important erotic parties and festivals and also tips for overnight stays in the area and the applicable dress code.

Tip! Find public and private erotic swinger parties during your stay with this travel calendar

Place your own swinger party in the calendar and let local swingers (couples and singles) take you on an adventure in a local club or at people’s homes. Conversely, you can of course also respond to requests from others.

Erotic festivals calendar 2025

Below you can see the erotic party and festival agenda of 2025, with the most important erotic parties in the Netherlands, Belgium and Germany.

14-16 March 2025: erotic festival Eroticabeurs Gent (with pop-up swingersclub)

Upon entering the Erotica Fair in Ghent, visitors are immersed in a world of tantalizing lighting, rousing music and seductively dressed performers. The atmosphere is both exciting and accessible, making visitors feel at ease quickly. The event is designed to celebrate eroticism in all its forms, from playful and romantic sensuality to more daring fetish elements. One of the highlights of the Erotica Fair in Ghent is the stage program, which is filled with exciting live performances. International burlesque dancers, erotic performers, fire breathers and fetish artists provide a visual spectacle that stimulates the senses. There are often also top-level striptease acts and pole dancing demonstrations. Some shows invite the audience to participate interactively, which makes the experience even more intense.

For visitors interested in the more alternative side of eroticism, the fair offers a special fetish and BDSM zone. Here, lovers of bondage, discipline, dominance and submission can safely and discreetly experiment with their fantasies. Demonstrations are given by experienced dominatrixes and mistresses, and visitors can talk to experts within the BDSM community to learn more about consent and safe practices.

This erotic party takes place in Flanders Expo in Ghent. You can spend the night in, for example:

1. the Holiday Inn Gent Expo from €120 per night at 150 metres.
2. or the hotel Astoria from €140 per night at 2,8 km.
3. Or check this map with more hotels in the neighbourhood.

5 April 2025: erotic festival Wasteland 

Wasteland is known as one of the most extravagant and groundbreaking erotic parties in the world. The dress code plays a crucial role in the unique atmosphere of the event and is strictly regulated to promote artistic and sexual expression. This means that regular nightwear is not allowed; visitors are encouraged to wear their most imaginative, fetish-inspired outfits. Wasteland takes the dress code very seriously. Casual clothing such as jeans, sneakers and everyday outfits are not accepted. Even sexy clubwear is not enough; visitors are expected to make the effort to immerse themselves in the fetish and fantasy world.

The Wasteland dress code revolves around fetish, fantasy and extravagance. The organization encourages creativity and expects visitors to dress in styles such as latex, leather, burlesque, gothic, cyberpunk, steampunk and BDSM-inspired outfits. Many visitors opt for provocative clothing such as tight corsets, catsuits, bondage harnesses, masks and feathers. Transparent fabrics, extravagant accessories and daring make-up are also popular. This erotic party takes place at the Northsea Venue. You can spend the night in, for example:

1. the Bastion Hotel Zaandam from €80 per night at 2,1 km.
2. or the B&B hotel Amsterdam-Zaandam from €80 per night at 1,9 km.
3. Or the Zaan hotel Amsterdam Zaandam from €90 per night at 2,5 km.
4. Or the amazing Inntel Hotel Zaandam from €110 per night at 3,2 km.

10-13 April 2025: erotic festival Kamasutrabeurs (with pop-up swingersclub)

At the Kamasutra fair, visitors can enjoy various performances and demonstrations that stimulate the senses. From sensual dance shows and burlesque performances to pole dancing demonstrations and BDSM workshops, there is something for everyone to discover. The live performances are provided by both national and international artists who express the art of eroticism in different ways. Visitors can not only enjoy the shows, but also participate in interactive workshops in which they gain new techniques and insights to enrich their love life. For couples, the Kamasutra fair offers an excellent opportunity to deepen their relationship in a playful and exciting way. By following workshops together and discovering products, couples can find new ways to enrich their love life. Many couples experience the event as an inspiring and connecting experience in which they come closer to each other and experience new adventures. The open and respectful atmosphere of the fair contributes to a feeling of freedom and playfulness, making visitors feel comfortable to explore their boundaries.

This erotic party takes place in the Jaarbeurs. You can stay overnight in:

1. the Bunk Hotel in Utrecht from €60 per night at 1,2 km.
2. or the NH hotel Utrecht from €138 per night at 500 metres.
3. or the Park Plaza hotel from €150 per nacht at 750 metres.

12 April 2025: erotic festival Madamme Homard, Eyes Wide Shut at the Castle 

The dress code for Madamme Homard, Eyes Wide Shut at the Castle, is an essential part of the mysterious and exclusive atmosphere surrounding the event. Inspired by Stanley Kubrick’s film of the same name, this sensual ball is known for its opulent, decadent and elegant appearance. The dress code is not just a style choice; it is a way to immerse attendees in a world of luxury, mystery and eroticism. Attendees are expected to dress to the nines according to strict guidelines, which not only contributes to the aesthetics of the event, but also to its exclusivity and the mutual atmosphere of anonymity and seduction. The first and most important element of the dress code is the mask. A beautiful, refined and mysterious mask is mandatory for all guests. This symbol of anonymity and mystery is essential to enhance the magical ambiance of the evening. Venetian masks, richly decorated eye masks or artistically designed face masks are preferred. Cheap, plastic masks or simple carnival variations are not permitted. The mask should match the rest of the outfit and contribute to the mysterious and erotic atmosphere of the evening. For gentlemen, a strictly formal dress code applies. A stylish black or dark-colored dinner jacket is required, preferably with a white shirt and a black or dark bow tie. A classic three-piece suit or a well-cut tuxedo is also acceptable. High-quality fabrics, such as silk or velvet, are recommended to maintain the luxurious feel of the event. Casual clothing, such as jeans, sneakers or a standard blazer, is not permitted. The look should be elegant and sophisticated, highlighting the mystery and class of the wearer. In addition to clothing and masks, grooming plays a major role. Guests at Madamme Homard, Eyes Wide Shut at the Castle, are expected to pay attention to details such as hairstyle, makeup and fragrance. Ladies can opt for a seductive makeup style with smokey eyes and deep-colored lips, while gentlemen should adopt a clean-shaven or neatly groomed look. Perfumes and fragrances should be subtle but seductive, with notes of musk, amber or vanilla, to match the mysterious ambiance.

5 juli 2025: erotic festival Wasteland Summerfest

Music plays a central role at Wasteland Summerfest, with a line-up of established and emerging DJs and live acts performing an eclectic mix of electronic music styles. From deep house to techno and from industrial to trance, the musical offerings ensure that visitors can fully immerse themselves in the rhythms and beats that dominate the night. The performances are complemented by spectacular light shows and visual effects that stimulate the senses and contribute to the intense atmosphere of the festival.

The festival takes place in a carefully selected location that provides the perfect setting for an exuberant spectacle full of artistic expression and fantasy. Visitors are encouraged to unleash their creativity through extravagant costumes, inspired by fetish, burlesque, goth, cyberpunk and other alternative styles. The dress code is strict and essential to maintain the atmosphere and theme of the festival. This means that casual clothing is not allowed and that visitors do their utmost to be part of the visual splendor of the event. This erotic party takes place at Kaap Amsterdam. You can spend the night in, for example:

1. the Amadi Panorama hotel from €130 per night at 3 km.
2. Or the Four Elements Hotel from €150 per night at 4,1 km.

4 october 2025: erotic festival Crazyland: B.I.T.C.H

The dress code for B.I.T.C.H. is an essential part of the unique atmosphere and feel of the event. This exclusive fetish party is known for its strict dress code that contributes to the extravagant and sensual ambiance. Visitors are encouraged to express their creativity and personal style within the set guidelines, which focus on fetish, latex, leather, lacquer, lace and other erotic materials. One of the key elements of the dress code is wearing high-quality and imaginative outfits. Latex is a common material at B.I.T.C.H., with tight, shiny catsuits, dresses and corsets being seen frequently. Leather is another popular choice, often in the form of tight pants, harnesses and jackets that give a tough and dominant look. Lacquer and lace add an extra dimension of sensuality, with sheer fabrics and provocative designs adding to the mysterious and seductive atmosphere of the party. In addition to materials, accessories play a major role in the dress code. High heels, knee-high boots, masks, collars, chains and gloves are common items that complete the outfit. The emphasis is on a bold and expressive look that fits within the fetish and BDSM scene. Although eroticism and sensuality are central, visitors are expected to keep their clothing style stylish and imaginative, without falling into the category of regular club clothing.

Casual clothing such as jeans, sneakers, sportswear or regular everyday outfits are not allowed. This is strictly enforced at the door, and visitors who do not comply with the dress code may be refused entry. This ensures that the unique atmosphere of B.I.T.C.H. is preserved and that all attendees can fully immerse themselves in the experience of the event.

This erotic party takes place in the Northsea Venue.

You can spend the night in, for example:

1. the Bastion Hotel Zaandam from €80 per night at 2,1 km.
2. or the B&B hotel Amsterdam-Zaandam from €80 per night at 1,9 km.
3. Or the Zaan hotel Amsterdam Zaandam from €90 per night at 2,5 km.
4. Or the amazing Inntel Hotel Zaandam from €110 per night at 3,2 km.

10-12 October 2025: erotic festivals Eroticabeurs Mechelen

In addition to the wide range of erotic products, shows and entertainment, this fair is also a meeting place for swingers. Swingers, or couples and individuals who are looking for like-minded people to share intimate experiences with, will find a unique opportunity to make new contacts and immerse themselves in the world of eroticism and freedom at the Erotica Fair in Mechelen. One of the most important aspects of the fair is the presence of stands that are specifically aimed at swingers. These stands are staffed by experienced people from the community who inform visitors about the lifestyle. In addition, there are special areas at the fair set up for meetings and social interaction. These lounges offer an informal setting where swingers can get to know each other. Some of these areas are specially designed to create an intimate and relaxed atmosphere, with comfortable seating, mood lighting and soft music in the background. Here visitors can talk, exchange experiences and make new connections without any pressure. For couples who are new to the world of swinging, the Erotica Fair offers an excellent opportunity to get acquainted with this lifestyle in an accessible way. They can look around, ask questions and discover what suits them at their own pace. There is no pressure to participate, which makes it a relaxed and enjoyable experience for many people.

This erotic party takes place in the Nekkerhal in Mechelen.

You can spend the night in:

1. het hotel drie paardekes vanaf €80 per nacht op 1,8 km afstand.
2. Check out this chart with hotels in the neighbourhood

25-28 October 2025: erotic festival Venus Berlin

Venus Berlin is known worldwide as the event for lovers of eroticism, sensuality and alternative lifestyles. In addition to the impressive performances, stands and demonstrations, the dress code is of great importance to guarantee the unique atmosphere. For many visitors, their outfit is an essential part of the experience. The clothing style at Venus Berlin is an exciting mix of erotic fashion, fetish elements and extravagance. Wearing the right outfit ensures that you not only stand out, but also become part of the visual splendor of the event. In addition to fetish clothing, lingerie plays a major role in the dress code at Venus Berlin. Many women opt for luxurious lace bodies, suspender sets or provocative bodysuits that combine elegance with eroticism. Men often wear stylish boxers, leather shorts or lingerie elements that fit within the alternative atmosphere of the festival. Glamorous clubwear is also popular, especially during the evening programs of Venus Berlin. Think of sparkling miniskirts, transparent tops, high heels and provocative accessories. These outfits create a chic and festive atmosphere, while at the same time perfectly matching the sensual energy of the event.

This erotic party takes place in Messehallen unter’m Funkturm.

You can spend the night in:

1. het hotel Ibis Berlin Messe vanaf €80 per nacht op 800 meter afstand.
2. Of kijk op kaart met alle hotel aanbiedingen in de omgeving

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