First time in a swingersclub

Are you looking for some new inspiration for your current love life? Or have you and/or your partner been fantasizing about taking a new step for some time now? But for one reason or another, it has not yet occurred to you to make the bold move and visit a swingers club. What exactly is holding you back? Is it the fear of running into acquaintances? Are you afraid of not being accepted in the club? Are you afraid of an unpleasant or very vulgar atmosphere? Our first experience is still fixed in our memory. The first time you drive up your driveway you feel your heart beating in your throat. What kind of people are these who go to such a club? You press the doorbell and for a moment nothing at all happens. Then the door opens and you step over that towering threshold into an unfamiliar world. The first thing you notice is how relaxed and nice everyone actually is. Perhaps the taboo that usually surrounds it means that everyone respects each other and likes to leave each other alone, as if they are part of a club of like-minded people. As it soon turns out, they really are ordinary people just like you who come from all walks of life. It’s just a way of going out where the eroticism is a nice complementary theme. You are not obligated to anything and the atmosphere is enormously liberating. Should you hesitate to take a look at a swingers club? Many clubs have some kind of introductory evening. Check the agenda of the club in question for that. Below are links with information about our experiences in couples and swingers clubs.

TIP! Get acquainted with the world of open-minded couples and swingers prior to your first visit

The fact that you have landed on this page probably means that you are interested in this open-minded lifestyle. Did you know that prior to your first visit you can already get a nice impression of what kind of people you will meet? The green button below will take you to a community where you can find, among other things, the following:

1. An overview of lots of open-minded couples (and singles as well). You can leave out your photo if you find that too scary, but you will probably see that for many people it is such a big part of their lives that they dare to be open about it.
2. An easy way to get to know other couples, date or ask for their experiences.
3. A handy travel calendar for meeting like-minded people while on vacation, too.
4. For tantalizing inspiration: Check out several tantalizing photos and videos of voyeuristic community-mates.
5. Any time of the day, there are several voyeuristic couples or singles giving you a live glimpse into their open-minded lives.

Frequently asked questions from first-time couples club visitors

If you are planning to visit a couples club for the first time, you probably have a lot of questions. Below we have formulated answers to some of these questions. For the remaining questions you can use the KIK form to ask us for free advice.

1. 1. Which swingers club best suits our needs for a first time? Of course, that depends very much on what exactly you are looking for (in terms of travel distance, in terms of ages, type of club). Would you like free advice? Then ask your question using the kik form above.
   2. Should you come in regular clothes or equal lingerie?  In most couples clubs, you can come in your normal clothes, but from a certain time everyone should be changed into lingerie.
   3. What kind of lingerie is best for the ladies and gentlemen to wear on my first visit? Below are clothing tips for your first visit.
   4. What are the ages of visitors in a couples club?This usually depends a lot on the couples club and the day you want to go. If you have questions about this, ask them via kik.
   5. Is it obligatory to join other couples or is it okay to just watch and be watched? Of course you are not obligated to join. In fact, many visitors (even advanced ones) to a couples club only come to enjoy a stimulating evening with their partner and do not want contact with other couples. Just being able to watch and be watched can be tremendously inspiring.

Which couples club is best for your first time? Or do you have another question about your visit? Ask your question anonymously on KIK-messenger

Are you considering visiting a swingers club for the first time? But do you want to make sure that the swingers club suits your needs a bit? Or are you a little reluctant because you don’t know exactly what to expect? Would you rather hear from others first about what it entails? Or would you like to get to know people who, like you, are planning to go first? Then let us help you anonymously via anonymous kik messenger. Scan the code below through your Kik account and you will be taken to our Easyswingers group. Ask your question here and tell us what you are looking for. We will then be happy to help you on your way to a fun first visit.

First time to a couples club? What do you put on?

So you are going to a couples club for the first time? That will surely be an experience you won’t soon forget. Now you might be wondering, what to wear when you go to the swingers club. The important thing is that you feel sexy and comfortable. Our tip for women is to put on a sexy dress over your lingerie. That way you might feel just a little more comfortable than if you put on just bra and panties. Below you will find a list of the nicest providers of sexy couples club dresses.

Curious about other swingers?

Then take a look at one of the swinger communities below.