Sexparties

Sex parties cater to all kinds of different preferences and identities. Some events focus specifically on certain fetishes or kink cultures, while others are more generally accessible to anyone with an open mind. While sex parties may not be for everyone, for many they offer a safe and exciting way to explore their sexuality. The combination of sensuality, social interaction and a respectful atmosphere makes these events unique. In a society where sex is still often a taboo subject, such parties can be a liberating and enriching experience for those who feel comfortable with it.

Tip! Find public and private sex parties during your stay using this travel calendar

Post your own sex party in the calendar and let local couples and singles take you on an adventure at a local club or in people’s homes. Conversely, of course, you can also respond to other people’s requests.

Public sex parties: over 1.000 sex parties every week

These sex parties are held at carefully selected venues specially decorated to create an exciting and inviting atmosphere. These can be chic nightclubs, luxurious villas, special fetish clubs, couples clubs or secret locations where only invited guests are welcome. The décor and atmosphere are very important for the success of these events. Think atmospheric lighting, comfortable seating areas and exclusive spaces where visitors can retreat for more intimate moments. Music also plays a big role and sets the right mood. You often hear sultry beats or deep house and techno music that make the experience even more intense. The anonymity of public sex parties makes them extra attractive. That is why there are strict rules to ensure privacy, such as a ban on photos and videos. Sometimes visitors even have to hand in their phones at the entrance to ensure everyone’s anonymity. These measures allow guests to feel free to be themselves, without fear of their presence being known outside the party.

On the erotic platform below, you will find around 1000 public sex parties you can go to every week around the world.

Private sex parties: house parties with couples and singles

Private home sex parties are a discreet and exclusive alternative to larger, public erotic events. In an intimate setting, like-minded individuals can come together to explore their deepest fantasies away from the eyes of the general public. These gatherings range from elegant soirees with an erotic edge to explicit parties where participants surrender completely to their desires.One of the biggest attractions of a private sex party is the setting itself. Instead of a large-scale club or an anonymous event hall, the party takes place in a homey and comfortable setting. This could be a luxury villa, a penthouse or a tastefully decorated house, depending on the host and the type of event. The homely atmosphere contributes to a sense of security and relaxation, making guests feel more comfortable and free to express themselves.

On the erotic platform below, you will find every week, under the heading parties and events, many private sex parties per country for which you can register.

Major festivals and fairs with a sexual touch

Below is a list of major erotic festivals and fairs.

5 April 2025: sexual festival Wasteland in Amsterdam, Holland 

Wasteland is hailed worldwide as one of the most spectacular and daring erotic events. Its unique atmosphere is largely determined by the strict dress code, which is designed to encourage artistic and sensual self-expression. Absolutely no everyday clothing is allowed; visitors are challenged to wear their most imaginative and fetish-inspired outfits. The organisation has strict guidelines when it comes to clothing. Casual items such as jeans, trainers and average clubwear do not meet the standard. Participants are expected to fully immerse themselves in the imaginative and fetish-focused ambience of the event. Wasteland is all about extravagance, fetish and fantasy. Visitors let their creativity run wild with outfits made of latex, leather, burlesque, gothic, cyberpunk, steampunk and BDSM elements. Tight corsets, catsuits, bondage harnesses, masks and sumptuous accessories dominate the dress code. Transparent fabrics, theatrical make-up and unique details complete the look. This legendary party takes place at the Northsea Venue.

You can spend the night in, for example:

1. the Bastion Hotel Zaandam from €80 per night at 2,1 km.
2. or the B&B hotel Amsterdam-Zaandam from €80 per night at 1,9 km.
3. Or the Zaan hotel Amsterdam Zaandam from €90 per night at 2,5 km.
4. Or the amazing Inntel Hotel Zaandam from €110 per night at 3,2 km.

10-13 April 2025: sexparties in the pop-up swingersclub at the Kamasutrabeurs in Utrecht, Holland

At the Kamasutra Fair, visitors are immersed in a world of sensual stimuli and exciting experiences. The event offers a varied programme of enchanting performances and intriguing demonstrations. From seductive burlesque shows and elegant pole dance acts to immersive BDSM workshops and erotic dance performances – there is something for everyone. Live performances are provided by both national and international artists, who uniquely bring the art of eroticism to life. Besides admiring spectacular shows, visitors can also actively participate in various workshops. Here, they will discover new techniques and insights that can enrich their love life. Whether refining seduction techniques or exploring exciting fantasies, the interactive sessions offer inspiration and practical tools for a more intimate connection. For couples, the Kamasutra Fair is a perfect opportunity to deepen their relationship in a playful and adventurous way. By having new experiences together, for example in the swingers’ room where you can build your own sex party, and discovering innovative products, they get to know each other in a different way. Many couples experience the event as an inspiring and connecting experience, where boundaries are explored in a safe and respectful way. The open and inviting atmosphere makes visitors feel free to be themselves and embrace their sensuality.

This erotic party takes place in the Jaarbeurs. You can stay overnight in:

1. the Bunk Hotel in Utrecht from €60 per night at 1,2 km.
2. or the NH hotel Utrecht from €138 per night at 500 metres.
3. or the Park Plaza hotel from €150 per nacht at 750 metres.

12 April 2025: sexual festival Madamme Homard, Eyes Wide Shut at the Castle 

The dress code of Madamme Homard: Eyes Wide Shut at the Castle is a crucial element that contributes to the exclusive and mysterious atmosphere of this enchanting event. Inspired by Stanley Kubrick’s iconic film, this sensual ball exudes decadence, elegance and intrigue. The dress code is not just a style choice, but a gateway to a world of luxury and seduction. Visitors are expected to fully conform to the strict guidelines, which not only enhances the aesthetic of the evening, but also creates an aura of anonymity and exclusivity.The main feature of the dress code is the mask, an indispensable accessory that enhances the atmosphere of mystery and anonymity. Guests should wear a sophisticated and stylish mask, preferably in the style of Venetian masks or artfully designed eye and face masks. Simple carnival masks or cheap plastic versions are not allowed. The mask should perfectly match the rest of the outfit and contribute to the enchanting, erotic ambience of the evening.Male guests should adopt an impeccable, formal look. A classic black dinner jacket or a dark, elegant suit with a white shirt and a black or deep-coloured bow tie is the standard.

A perfectly cut three-piece suit or a luxurious tuxedo also fits within the dress code. Fabrics such as silk or velvet are recommended to ensure the opulent look of the event. Casual clothing, including jeans, trainers or standard jackets, is strictly prohibited. The look should be sophisticated, mysterious and extremely groomed.Female guests are encouraged to dress in sensual and luxurious fabrics such as silk, satin, velvet and lace. Long evening dresses with a dramatic flair, close-fitting cocktail dresses or bold, chic corsets fit the mood perfectly. High heels, sophisticated jewellery and elegant accessories are essential elements that complete the look. Transparent fabrics, deep cleavages and playful, seductive details add an extra layer of sensuality, without falling into the vulgar.

This erotic party takes place at Kaap Amsterdam. You can spend the night in, for example:

1. the Amadi Panorama hotel from €130 per night at 3 km.
2. Or the Four Elements Hotel from €150 per night at 4,1 km.

5 juli 2025: sexual festival Wasteland Summerfest in Amsterdam, Holland

Music is the beating heart of Wasteland Summerfest, where an impressive line-up of both established and emerging DJs and live acts presents a hypnotic mix of electronic music styles. The deep bass lines of techno, the compelling melodies of trance and the raw energy of industrial fill the air, while the dance floor pulsates to the rhythm of the night. Spectacular light shows and overwhelming visual effects enhance the experience, allowing visitors to lose themselves completely in the sensory explosion offered by the festival.

The carefully chosen venue serves as the backdrop for an exuberant celebration of artistic expression and imagination. Here, nothing is ordinary; every visitor contributes to the mystical and extravagant atmosphere through bold costumes inspired by fetish, burlesque, goth, cyberpunk and other avant-garde styles. The strict dress code guards this unique ambience and turns the festival into a living work of art where fantasy and reality merge. Casual attire is not an option – only those who fully surrender to the theme become part of the visual splendour of this tantalising spectacle. This exciting event takes place in Cape Amsterdam. For those who want to rest after a night of decadence and ecstasy, there are several accommodation options, including:

1. het Amadi Panorama hotel vanaf €130 per nacht op 3 km afstand.
2. Of het Four Elements Hotel vanaf €150 per nacht op 4,1 km afstand.
3. Of kijk op kaart met alle hotel aanbiedingen in de omgeving

Dresscode tips:

Ben je op zoek naar tips voor een passende dresscode voor Wasteland Summerfest, kijk dan op onderstaande tips:

1. TIP! schiterende fetish kleding voor Wasteland : meer informatie
2. TIP! fetish kleding (latex, leer etc.) voor vrouwen en mannen: meer informatie
3. TIP! diverse fetish outfits: meer informatie
4. TIP! groot aanbod fetish outfits: meer informatie

4 oktober 2025: sexual festival Crazyland: B.I.T.C.H

B.I.T.C.H.’s dress code is the backbone of the exclusive and sensual atmosphere that characterises this legendary fetish party. This is no ordinary club night, but a night where extravagance and sensuality go hand in hand. Visitors are challenged to show their most daring and imaginative side within the strict guidelines that characterise the event. Fetish materials such as latex, leather, lacquer and lace dominate the décor, creating an ambience where fashion and eroticism merge into an art form.

Latex remains one of the most popular choices, from tightly fitted catsuits and provocative dresses to corsets that dramatically accentuate the silhouette. Leather adds a powerful, dominant look, often in the form of harnesses, jackets and tight-fitting trousers that exude authority and allure. Lacquer and lace strike a playful balance between mystery and seduction, with translucent details and detailed designs giving the party an undeniable erotic intensity.

The clothes are further enhanced by accessories that complete the look. High heels and knee boots add sensual attitude, while masks, necklaces, chains and gloves contribute to the theatrical and bold aesthetic that makes B.I.T.C.H. so unique. Although eroticism is the common thread, style remains an absolute must. This is no place for average club wear; outfits should inspire and challenge.

Casual clothing such as jeans, trainers or sporty outfits are absolutely not allowed. Strict checks are carried out at the door, and those who do not adhere to the dress code risk being refused entry. This ensures that the atmosphere of the party remains intact and that every visitor can fully immerse themselves in the special experience that B.I.T.C.H. has to offer. The event will take place at the Northsea Venue.

You can spend the night in, for example:

1. the Bastion Hotel Zaandam from €80 per night at 2,1 km.
2. or the B&B hotel Amsterdam-Zaandam from €80 per night at 1,9 km.
3. Or the Zaan hotel Amsterdam Zaandam from €90 per night at 2,5 km.
4. Or the amazing Inntel Hotel Zaandam from €110 per night at 3,2 km.

25-28 Oktober 2025: sexual festival Venus Berlin

Venus Berlin is a leading global event for lovers of eroticism, sensuality and alternative lifestyles. The unique atmosphere is defined not only by spectacular performances, inspiring stands and compelling demonstrations, but also by the visitors’ clothing choices. Here, the right outfit is much more than a fashion statement; it is an essential part of the overall experience and contributes to the visual splendour that makes the festival so special. The clothing style at Venus Berlin balances between seduction, extravagance and fetish. Visitors immerse themselves in a world of erotic fashion, where latex, leather and lace are frequently combined with daring cuts and provocative designs. Lingerie plays an important role and is stylishly integrated into outfits. Women often opt for luxurious lace bodysuits, seductive suspender sets or elegant bodysuits that exude sensuality and class. Men put their own spin on the dress code with leather shorts, stylish boxers or lingerie-inspired elements that fit within the alternative atmosphere of the festival.

For the evening programmes, clothing choices take on an extra glamorous twist. Visitors embrace sparkling miniskirts, sheer tops, high heels and statement accessories that give a chic, festive look. The combination of sophistication and seduction perfectly complements the sensual energy exuded by Venus Berlin, making everyone feel part of a world where expression and eroticism converge. This exciting event takes place in the Messehallen unter’m Funkturm and promises an unforgettable experience where fashion, passion and fantasy merge.

Overnight accommodation can be found, for example, in:

1. the hotel Ibis Berlin Messe vanaf €80 per nacht at800 meter.